Why do people have to make everything ual..more of an explanation inside?

If people are saying this to you , then perhaps it is the way you are wearing the mini skirts etc.. There are way to wear cute stylish things like that and not come off as ual and there are ways of wearing things that do come off ual. So possibly you could be coming off that way. I'm not knocking your style, but you can't control what people think. I mean It seems to me that you may want this attention. YOur previous questions and maybe it is you making things so ual. Lots of females wear skirts or hug a male and it is not all about , but for you it seems to be and this indicates that you have a deep need for the attention